Temporary leaves and permanent stays

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You will meet lots of new people on a daily basis especially when you are an outgoing person who would like to travel and have curiosity towards learning new things, when you do so you will make new friends who might help you heal your heart or break them.

This happens a lot to teenagers and young adults who are willing to expand and develop their network of friends so that they may feel socially recognized, respected, popular, and confident. This is the reason why people spend lots of money on buying good clothes, accessories, expensive phone with a good camera and keep posting pictures and videos of whatever they do on SNAPCHAT, INSTAGRAM, Facebook, and sometimes on LINKEDIN and wait for likes, comments and responses to their stories which fluctuates their dopamine levels.

You might see a pattern here: most of the people you meet become friends, hang out with you, text you, talk to you on phone calls, and suddenly they will ghost you. Sounds harsh when I tell you the truth right? These people are the temporary ones whom you should not give much importance to and just let them leave your life as they aren't meant to be in your circle for good. eg:- Your crush, the girl you had feelings for once upon a time.

The other type of people are rare and few but these are the best people who will become your close friends, stay in touch with you via calls, texts,  outings, never ghost you, and will always be a part of your life. eg:- Best friends, good colleagues, family, mentors.

So please don't be depressed or feel bad if you are ghosted by other people, it's for your good.

Your people will always be there for you.


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