Anger issues stops you from growing and glowing

 Anger is not just an emotion; it is a fire that spreads internally and externally, which ultimately burns down everything that you have built, including your relationships and peace of mind. Remember the times when you lost your close friends, close relatives, your girlfriend, your boyfriend or your job ,and the list goes on..... Thats because of this emotion called anger..... great achievers know how to deal with anger especially with the short-tempered ones that make your blood boil and wanna make you hit few people or scream at people, no doubt many people who are at the top like big actors or cricketers usually have a calm tone and they talk very slowly in a steady manner. They do not get triggered easily, that's because of their experience and their ability to control their emotions, especially the most dangerous, or I would rather say impactful emotion.... anger.

Let me tell you a small story about Mr Das, he was a short-tempered and angry person but was very sincere towards his work and performed well but his personal life was not good or up to the mark, he had no close friends, even though people liked him and wanted to be close were afraid of his short temper and his straightforwardness, so he was not welcomed by many people into their close friend's circle and even when he was truthful and cared about people they would avoid him or talk bad about him, even his family members were distant from him due to his anger issues, this made him feel lonely and he became sad even though he was good at his professional life, he had no one except himself and a few friends who loved him for who he his as a person. 

Then one day, when he was going for a brisk walk in the evening he was scrolling his phone and misby bumped a lady who was having a soft drink In her hands and it got spilled every where , he was so scared and told her sorry many times and he also expected her to scream at him but to his surprise she was very cool and she just calmy told him "busy man sometimes look into the nature and walk instead of scrolling your phone.... that will help you connect with the present and bring peace." 

He was really shocked to see that lady was calm and did not show any anger or aggression even though her soft drink fell down , he then asked her how she was this calm and she told him that

"Anger or sudden reaction to everything is not good , one must control their emotion , Pause breathe and then react the best way to the situation so that there is no peace lost and the rite solution is provided."

She told him that try to be calm in chaos as people are already going through a lot everyday , they are handling personal and professional life and all they need is positivity and calmness to escape from reality. If we are calm and nice to our friends and family it will really make them feel good and secure. The more you are calm the more clearer your mind will be to choose the rite choice which will lead to a better decision. Every thing will multiply, your friendships , relationships , money and love.

Das went back home with a mind filled by the ladys wisdom and applied it from the next day,

When people were rude he was calm , when things went out of his control he accepted and he just reacted in a calm manner to what was thrown at him instead of getting angry.

This helped him made better decisions and he got his lost friends back and also made new friends and he got stronger in both personal and professional life.

 But yea I know its difficult to be done than said.... i know we have irritating people who are nosy , toxic and ofcourse irritating in our lives, we cant punch each of them rite , then we all have to become boxers and martial artists instead of what we really want to... remember guys time is gold , just avoid those idiots but yea there will be times where you got to be stren and show little bit of anger when idiots do too much, that's fine but just let go after that.

Remember you can never control others and its quite difficult to educate others, you change for the good and be good.

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